A Valentine’s Day wedding sounds like the ultimate romantic dream—exchanging vows on the official Day of Love. Valentine’s Day weddings blend romance with practicality, offering a mix of memorable perks and logistical challenges. But is it the perfect choice for every couple?
While a wedding on February 14th offers a built-in romantic atmosphere, it also comes with some unique challenges like higher costs and guest attendance issues. Here are some key factors to consider before saving the date.
Pros of Valentine’s Day weddings
When it comes to celebrating your wedding on the official day of love, there are some very compelling pros. Let’s check them out.
- Built-in romantic theme
Probably the best thing about getting married on Valentine’s Day is a ready-made theme with red, pink, and white color schemes, heart motifs, and love-themed décor. No need to rack the brain for inspiration when you already have a built-in romantic theme.
You just need to choose from soft blush pink to deep, passionate red, accented with hints of gold. Whatever option you opt for, you will create a stunning palette. And don’t forget to enhance the romantic ambiance by incorporating candlelight for a warm and intimate glow.
- Vendor discounts and availability
If you decide to tie the knot on Valentine’s Day, there are some practical things you should know. For example, some venues and vendors offer off-season discounts for February weddings, though this varies by location.
For instance, if you want a photo booth hire for your wedding, you should look for vendors who offer Valentine’s Day discounts. Similarly, you might be able to get some discount on roses, since the whole flower industry works hard to grow and sell roses during this month.
- Romantic atmosphere
Since it’s the month of love, the atmosphere is bound to be romantic.
However, while the world is celebrating generic love, you will be celebrating your forever love and happily ever after, so the atmosphere will be extra special.
On top of that, the theme and décor will add to the romantic atmosphere. With heart-shaped décor, chocolates, and roses everywhere, it’s undeniable that love fills the air.
- Unforgettable anniversary
Valentine’s Day is a pretty memorable date, so you will always have a reminder of your anniversary. This will make celebrations inherently festive with global décor and promotions adding to the joy.
While many view Valentine’s Day as a particularly commercialized holiday, you will be able to transform this day into a deeply personal celebration by adding sentimental value to it.
Cons of Valentine’s Day weddings
On the other hand, we shouldn’t disregard the cons of having a Valentine’s Day wedding as well. And not just because haters will say that celebrating a wedding on the official day of love is cheesy.
- Higher cost and demand
Yes, others may think that your choice of a wedding date is a cliché, but there are actual concerns that include higher costs and demand.
Popular venues, catering, and floral arrangements may cost more due to Valentine’s Day demand. Yes, you might be able to get some great discounts, but in the grand scheme of things, tying the knot on such a huge commercial holiday may turn out to be much more expensive.
On top of that, competition for wedding venues and vendors will be cutthroat. Popular venues may be booked far in advance or charge premium rates.
You’ll need to plan well in advance, especially if you’re aiming for a sought-after wedding venue.
- Guest attendance challenges
February 14 doesn’t always fall on weekends. Midweek weddings can lead to lower attendance, as guests may have prior plans or work obligations. Not to mention that hotels and restaurants will be packed, making reservations tricky for you and your guests.
- Weather risks
Unless you book your wedding somewhere tropical, February weather in many regions poses risks like snowstorms, ice, fog, and so on, potentially disrupting travel for you or your guests.
Bad weather conditions may also affect attendance at your wedding, it may affect venue availability, and so much more. While winter weddings can be incredibly beautiful, it’s important to consider the weather.
- Sharing the day
Before you make any big decisions, keep in mind that your anniversary will always be tied to a holiday that everyone celebrates. However, as we mentioned, this doesn’t have to be a problem if you make this date deeply personal and add sentimental value to it.
- Marriage longevity concerns
According to a recent study made at the University of Melbourne, Valentine’s Day marriages have a 45% higher divorce rate within three years, though this correlation doesn’t imply causation. So, if you believe in numbers and studies, you might want to choose another date to tie the knot.
Tips for balancing pros and cons
Flexible scheduling
To avoid guest attendance challenges, there are some smart scheduling solutions. For instance, you can host a weekday ceremony with a weekend reception to accommodate guests.
Weather contingencies
If the weather is your only concern, don’t worry because you can always opt for indoor venues or destinations with mild February climates.
Creative themes
Avoid clichés by creating personalized decor and themes. Stay away from overly commercialized red roses and heart-shaped balloons.
A Valentine’s Day wedding can be a dream come true if planned carefully. Weigh the pros and cons to decide if this love-filled day is the perfect fit for your special moment.